"I am no one's person": Woman explains what coupled people just don't get about being "chronically single"

Understanding the Struggles of Being "Chronically Single"

A woman's emotional TikTok video has gone viral, shedding light on the challenges of long-term singleness. Emma (@mainelyemma) shares her experience of being "chronically single" and the weight that comes with it.

"I am no one's person… I am no one's first choice. There is no one on this planet that exists, that is that for me, or that I am that for them."

Emma explains that being single is not just about not having a partner, but about lacking someone who consistently shows up for you in everyday life. She highlights the struggles of navigating a world designed for couples, where single people are often left to carry the weight of responsibilities alone.

Despite having the love and support of friends, family, and communities, single people like Emma face unique challenges that can be disorienting, terrifying, and exhausting.

Author's summary: A woman shares her emotional experience of being "chronically single".

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The Daily Dot The Daily Dot — 2025-10-13

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